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Think about it: how many Asian guys do you see in the media?
Asian girls have been highly fetishized since the 40's, but not the guys.
There is a relationship market for them, though it might be modest.
I think this is one reason some black men play up the hip hop thug image. Black women are almost nonexistent on magazine covers, with the exception of a few extremely beautiful singers and actresses.
I guess black women on OKCupid are tech savvy, professional black women who don't value hip hop thugs very much?
Having said all that, I absolutely must say that OKCupid is predominantly young liberal yuppies. This might not apply well to other people, and says almost nothing about any given individual. When she tried dating white guys she was turned off by how callous they were to blacks.
Asian women have more social capital, but their culture is fairly insular, so they don't date outside their race. This makes them even more of a prize, so when they consider dating a non-Asian man, they go for equally prized white men. On OKC, blacks sent out the most messages and got the fewest replies.
Black men did much better than black women, however. Black men are usually depicted as immense, primal, and are highly sexualized.
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That’s when Steven put his fork down and turned to me.