The other thing about INTJs is they are less bothered by superficial things like what he wears, what he does for a living, does he have straight teeth, or other tangible things.
An INTJ is typically focused on character assessment, the intangible things – values family, integrity, openness, down to earth, etc.
She doesn’t take it personal if he bows out, not all people are a match, though she will expect him to be direct about it (which leaves the disappearing boys being viewed as cowardly and quickly determined as not suitable for a resurface down the road).
Though fellows be aware, the INTJ female will typically be direct and not leaving any question if her assessment has resulted in a fail, it will be a polite ‘this has been fun, but we’re not a fit, wish you the best! If the guy makes it past the first few dates, it means the INTJ woman sees potential which kicks off the next month or so (sometimes more! INTJs are super open minded, so this phase isn’t about passing judgement on the other person, it’s about assessing compatibility.
She’s cautious and treads slowly until she’s decided he’s a suitable match. That’s when the kissing face emoticons come out – if you get one of these from an INTJ female you can be certain you’ve won her over. It’s not to say there’s not exceptions out there, but INTJ women by nature aren’t going to cheat. She not only knows her worth, but nothing on earth is going to make her waiver from her man.
Once they’ve decided this guy is the one, it’s pretty much locked in stone in her head until the day they break up for good. The INTJ woman is loyal to the end at a level most people cannot understand.
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Which can be super confusing for some men, but also a great filtering mechanism for the INTJ woman.
A man that doesn’t stay through that phase is typically not open minded enough to be with her anyways so it’s all good.
We do fun, but to us, that’s not how we define fun.
It’s probably important to also know that because an INTJ woman is focused on assessing the guy’s compatibility, she’s typically not doing any of the normal things women are trained to do in the early phases.